daLam hiduP penuH teoRi. Tapi kadaNg2 teoRi tak boLeh paKai. sebaB2 kiTe ni tibe2 jd dunGu tak BeriLmu...jD, aKu LuahKan ape aKu raSe, sekaDar berkongSi ceRita dR JiwA...
Lame jugak aku tak menjenguk blog ni…byk dah rupenye sawang labah2 ngan habuk2 durjana mewarnai blog I yg cantik ni…ahaks! Kau kalau merapu kan dira, melampau betul!
By the way, hari jumaat lepas kut right after habis interview, my abah yg setia menjadi driver and bodyguard I la kan, terus la g school my lil brother untuk menjemput beliau… ewahhh! Then tgh I best lepak2 dlm kereta, tibe2 abah jinjing something dlm plastic bag. Curious nak tau ni actually… so I pun ngan rakusnye bertanye “abah! Ape tu?!”
Abah I ngan muke seposen jawab, “Blackcurrant Malaysia…”
Dalam hati I ni memberontak bzbody nak tau ape tu blackcurrant Malaysia… Then abah cakap, “buat air best tau…kalah blackcurrant juice yg len…” siap buat muke bongkak lagi tu… hoho!
Honestly, I memang tak tau tu buah ape…dahla bentuk mcm misai octopus yg dlm citer Pirate & The Caribbean tu…ni ha rupe wajah buah tu…
Tapi, bile mama dah siap buat air tu, eyhhhh sedap la… ade mcm rase dragon fruit pun ade jugak… masam2 manis gitu… sedapppppppp…
Nak buat ag la… I siap ckp ngan abah, len kali jgn bawak 1 plastic, bawak 1 guni ke… tibelah sifat tamak dlm diri…kahkahkah…apepun, I like air ni! Secret recipe abah n mama…love it as usual!
P/s: I nak buat wedding ala2 dracula…so air ni memang sgt sesuai dihidangkan kepada tetamu yg dtg!! Heeeeheeee =p
I watched “He’s Just Not That into You” on last Wednesday… its 2009 movies, but it pretty fun to watch it back… (Just because Bradley Cooper is there!!! I’m just so crazy about him…hehe) By the way, I love the theories in this film…however, I’m going to change it due to my own principles. So, here I go…;
1.If he’s not calling u;
Come on girl, never call him back!!!
2.If he’s not marrying u;
Walk away & find someone else… because it shows that he’s not able to be in commitment…
3.If he’s not sleeping with u;
Well, I have to be fair…ask him about the reason, and let say u r not that good in ur bed, please3 learn how to make him appetite k… otherwise, u’ll be sorry for yourself dear…
4.If he’s sleeping with someone else;
O’oooo…guess it’s too late…this is unforgiving…the worst part happen, divorce is the way…
Hate to be as simple as me? Never try to be me then...
I'm not surprised, not everything lasts
I've broken my heart so many times I stopped keeping track
Talk myself in, I talk myself out
I get all worked up then I let myself down
I tried so very hard not to loose it
I came up with a million excuses
I thought, I thought of every possibility
And I know some day that it’ll all turn out
You'll make me work so we can work to work it out
And I promise you kid that I give so much more than I get
I just haven't met you yet
I might have to wait, I’ll never give up
I guess it's half timin and the other half's luck
Wherever you are, whenever it's right
You'll come outta nowhere and into my life
And I know that we can be so amazin
And baby your love is gonna change me
And now I can see every possibility
Somehow I know that it’ll all turn out
You'll make me work so we can work to work it out
And promise you kid I'll give so much more than I get
I just haven't met you yet
They say all’s fair in love and war
But I won’t need to fight it
We'll get it right and we'll be united
And I know that we can be so amazin
And bein in your life is gonna change me
And now I can see every single possibility
And someday I know it'll all turn out
And I'll work to work it out
Promise you kid I’ll give more than I get
Oh you know it'll all turn out
And you'll make me work so we can work to work it out
And promise you kid to give so much more than I get yeah
I just haven't met you yet
I just haven't met you yet
Oh promise you kid to give so much more than I get
I said love love love love love love love
I just haven't met you yet
One of my besti said;
“Dira, when you fall in love for someone, there’s no actually reason for it. You just fall…because it felt right, when two hearts became one…”
And I told her;
Babe, I just hope that I’ll meet someone that I really meant for…once I found the guy, I love him for keep…I promise!
melihatkan report practicum aku yg dah siap ni, jiwa aku memberontak untuk mengatakan yg kini tibalah masenye utk menamatkan sesi bergelar pelajar...!!!!!!! hehehe (ayat tak boleh blah ni...)
even though ade miscommunication yg almost menyebabkan aku melayang Ringgit Malaysia tujuh puluh lima td, bodek punye bodek dptlah aku rate Ringgit Malaysia empat puluh... kalau ikutkan aku leh dapat 35 jep, tp leyh lak member aku ckp 40... coi!!!
see.... inilah hasil kerja aku selepas berhempas pulas prepare report utk company ni... puas hati, n proud of myself... heee (tak slhkan kalau kite bgge diri jap...). esok nak htr, sgt teruja!!!
esok jugak kene amik dean cert, maka berakhirlah perjalanan aku dlm mengejar degree... (ayat yg plg menyampah..!) even though konvo aku thn depan.... (hhoowaaaaaaaa lmbt lagi la cik dira oi!!!!)... sempat kumpul duit ni nak kawen...(eyh silap, kumpul duit nak byr hutang ptptn aku, anta mama n abah g haji- sejuk hati mama aku dgr kahkahkah-)...
cant wait to see KA on this wednesday... he just back from Johannesburg, so a lot of things nak share together... it just, we feel disappointed because one of our bestie is not here... Mel, u really understand right how much i want u to b here... =,( sobbb sobbbb...
heeee so guess i talk to my lovely page back right after i submit my report...!!!
He might have 1 reason to expect that I will fall in love with him, but I really have more than thousand reasons why I will never fall in love with him…
It just me, being single is much better than investing my heart, feel and soul to someone that assume love is a game, and girl is for play… expecting that I’ll be one of your accessories in the game? Over my dead body!
Aku ngah download movie…smntara nak tggu download mission tu complete, mulelah jiwa aku ni miang nak rase bosan… dr aku melahu tak tentu hala, adalah baiknye aku mengindahkan blog aku ni dgn post aku yg syok sendiri ni… hehe… (sedar diri jugak aku ni kan…)
Last night, aku chat dgn one of ex-classmate aku…dah best2 sembang gelak terguling, tibe2 dia cakap, aku ni kelakar bile dah jd kawan…muke jep sombong… hehe memang aku muke kerek pun… nak kate hati kering tu takla sgt… ade jugak la lembap2 cket… mcm kek chocolate moist tu…wahahaha
Ramai yg pndg aku mcm aku ni tade hidung…
taulah aku ni tak comel, tak cantik… huhuhu tp hidung aku ade la, (even takla mancung…mancungla sikit dr paku payung…hehe)…
tapi, ade aku kisah dorg tgk ke, tenung ke, analisis ke… hehehe they can say anything about me as they please…tade makne bg kudis kat aku…tp lau kuar kudis, aku suruh la dorg bayar medical fees aku…wahahahahahaha (ketawa kejam ni)
Aku rase dorg tu pelik kut dgn aku, muke giler tade perasaan, asal telinge aku cun saja kene sumbat dgn earphone…smbil tu bace novel Hlovate (wa suke gile novel2 beliau!!!), pastu dlm duk berangan dlm kelas, bile lec tanye soalan, slumber gajah aku jawab…siap kene puji ngan lec ni… kembang kempis hidung aku… (dada berombak-ombak jugak la duk kene puji).
Papepun, aku percaya setiap org ada style yg tersendiri…aku ni mcm alien, aku tau la… tp aku manusia la…tak tau lak aku dulu if ade alien dtg melawat aku time aku kecik2 kan…cara aku berbeza dgn org len…terpulang nak fikir pe pun, aku tada hal… as long as jgn kacau hidup aku, hidup si pengacau akan aman… hehehe (mcm gangster jep nak cakap mcm ni eyh…)
p/s: tayah la geng ngan aku, darjah kemerengan aku ni sgt tggi…aku risau lau korang geng ngan aku, nnt korang masuk happy garden…=p
Heee mcm kelakar jep tajuk story aku ni kan… tp tu la hakikatnye, aku memang super giler addict dgn music… dr ghazal smpi metal semua aku layan… tp aku bukan reti men instrument pun…hehehe…gebang lebih la aku ni…
Tp tu la, life aku ni giler bosan without music… (cubelah ckp dgr mengaji, sejuk hati mama aku, ni tak…ape la nak jadi kau ni dira oiiii!) membebel kat diri sendiri pulak…
Aku dah lame nak belajar men piano, tp tu la kan kan kan sekali aku tanye yuran dia, pehhhh best dgr smpi sentap gak la…(aku ni berangan lebih la, men guitar pun suku jalan… =p) tape dira, pelan2 kayuh…takkan lari piano dikejar (memang ler, piano mane reti men kejar2…)
Tp, duit yuran??? mintak mama abah? Tayah der, nak blaja music, jgn mintak ngan parents… pndi cari la k… tade aku nak mintak parents aku duit just sebab nak blaja men music…ade jap ag nenek aku plak yg membebel “apa…???!!!!! Main muzik???” kehkehkeh…payah lau radio jepun dah bunyi… hiiii
Papepun, korang doa la banyak2 ye impian aku yg ntah pape ni makbul la… amin….
p/s: agak2 ok x if aku cri jep laki yg pndi men piano, ajar free jep kan kan kan…hehehe
JGN MALAIKAT DI LUARAN tapi kau SYAITAN DI DALAMAN…
Hidup umpama roda, bile2 masa ia berputar…
Pada ketika itu, ape jua yg datang, jgn kau salahkan takdir…
Kerana ia, pilihan hidup kau sendiri...
HoNey, wHat u GiVe u geT back… that’s LIFE…
p/s: Hari ini, kau menang…esok luse, kau akan faham sakitnye dipermainkan, diperbodohkan, diperkotak-katikkan…kata2 dusta kau aku dah faham, wayang kau pun dah buat aku kenyang…teruskanlah dgn perempuan itu…once you WALK AWAY, NEVER COME BACK!!!
This is true...because when i’m in silent, the possibilities are;
1.I’m not in the MooD (even though the possibility is once in a blue moon... =D)
2.somebody geT on my NerVe... (D-RaCuLa in mE hungry!)
3.i’m ThinkinG thinking & thiNkinG...
When a GIRL is not arguing... She is thinking deeply.
This is 80% accurate actually...cuz
1.She might be thinking deeply.
2.She is sulking.
3.She is tired of being in love debate.
4.She’s stupid enough to not saying a word while actually the argument is not because of her fault.
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions...
She is wondering how long you will be around.
Na, this is 60% accurate. Cuz, normally, a lot of things that is in her mind...
1st runner up goes to... “Does he Love me??”
2nd runner up goes to “Does he miss me?”
3rd runner up “does he have anyone else than me??”
4th runner up ... Will he marry me?”
So, every time when the girl is looking at you with one kind of look, just let it be...because they love to think about so many things... =D
When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds...
She is not at all fine.
Yeah yeah yeah this is absolutely correct! A+ for the theory... hehe.. Once a girl saying that ‘yeah I’m fine, don’t worry’... the fact is in the other way round. In her heart, she deeply wants you to comfort her...sounds so rubbish right? But that’s the real life of GIRL...
When a GIRL stares at you...
She is wondering why you are lying.
No No no, not so true...
1st >>> You are so HandsomE!!! GOSH!
2nd >>>Please, You are nothing...
3rd >>> Oh Yes! You are my MR. Right!!!
Well again... a lot of things that is being thinking by GIRLS...
This is a few of theory about girl...i'm going to discover another theory, n i'll be back soon!!! guys out there, GIRLS are really COMPLICATED right??? i agRee with aLL of you!!!
Kenapa aku cakap cinta ni sama dgn produk pelengkap? Ok, mcm ni… ape rase pakai kasut tanpa stoking? Berfungsi ke jam tanpa bateri? Boleh jalan ke kereta kalau takde tayar? Same la macam cinta… Bile ada cinta, ia melengkapkan hidup kita. Ape kita rase hidup tanpa keluarga? Dengan adenye cinta, kita akan dapat sesuatu yang takde pada kita, tp pada orang lain ia ada. Jadi, CINTA itu sama dengan PRODUK PELENGKAP…
CINTA = PELANGI
Pelangi ada 7 warna kan…maksud di sebalik warna tu??
Merah = keberanian, berahi, tindakan.
Dalam cinta, kene ade keberanian, dan tindakan. Cinta tu sendiri membawa maksud berahi jugak…
Jingga = penguasaan, pengawalan, penyembuhan.
Dalam cinta, ada sifat penguasaan dan pengawalan. Kita selalu cuba untuk kawal diri kita dari menyakiti pasangan tp dalam mase yg same kita tak sedar yg kite cuba menguasai pasangan kita.
Kuning = kebijaksaan, kegembiraan, kebahagiaan.
Cinta membawa banyak kegembiraan dan kebahagiaan kepada manusia. Tapi, ia perlukan kebijaksanaan kita untuk terus berada di landasan yang betul.
Hijau = kehidupan, semulajadi, kesuburan.
Cinta itu satu kehidupan yang tumbuh secara semulajadi. Kita perlu jaga dan semai ia supaya ia terus subur di dalam jiwa.
Biru = kebenaran, keamanan, keremajaan.
Cinta perlu ade kebenaran. Cinta juga akan membuatkan seseorang itu seperti remaja. Dengan cinta juga mampu mewujudkan keamanan kepada semua.
Indigo = penguasaan diri.
Tak semuanya indah dalam cinta. Kadang-kadang lebih banyak negative yg dtg kalau seseorang itu tak pandai kawal emosi. Ia akan menyebabkan seseorang itu lebih fikirkan perasaan sendiri dari fikirkan perasaan bersama.
Ungu = magic, misteri.
Cinta mampu membawa magic ke dalam diri seseorang. Ia juga misteri yg mane tak siapa akan tahu bila ia wujud. Ape yg pasti, kita hanya akan sedar yg kita dah jatuh cinta!
So, CINTA itu same dengan PELANGI…warna2 itu membawa sejuta maksud kepada si pencinta.
CINTA = MARKETING STRATEGY
Dalam marketing strategy, kita kene ada commercial value & attraction force utk pull our target audience. Samelah dengan cinta. Setiap manusia ade value tersendiri. Cuma macam mane kite nak market kan ape yg kite ade jep berbeza…market kat sini bukanlah maksud kene jual diri murah2, tp penarik yg ade utk mendapat cinta. Attraction force tu bukan limited kat physical attraction ataupun good looking semata, tp hati budi kita sebagai manusia gak…cuba tgk Cleopatra, semua kate mcm manelah dia boleh tackle pemimpin ulung dunia sedangkan tak cantik mana pun…tp, peribadi Cleoptara cukup elok and she really has something which is her knowledge… tu attraction force dia…samelah mcm marketing strategy, iklan gempak mcm manepun tp kalau produk tak berkualiti, tade attraction force nye…So, CINTA itu sama dengan MARKETING STRATEGY…
CINTA = SALES ACTIVITY
Dalam sales activity, ia melibatkan pertukaran. Sama ade product atau services, ia perlu ditukar dengan wang. Samelah mcm cinta jugak. Ia perlukan pertukaran dan kerjasama dua pihak yang berurusan. Kalau sorang jep yang kata cinta dan memberi cinta tp sorang lagi taknak, tak jadilah hubungan cinta tu. Ia memerlukan kedua2 pihak bersetuju untuk terikat dengan kontrak perasaan. Jadi, CINTA ni samelah jugak dengan SALES ACTIVITY…
CINTA = KUCING
Cuba tengok kucing. Kucing tu haiwan yg sangat manja, nakkan perhatian tuan dia, nak kene belai2, nak kene mandikan dia, nak kene jaga kesihatan dia, dan mcm2 lagi. Tanggungjawab pada kucing ni bukan sekadar bg dia mkn kenyang2 pastu taknak layan dia. Samelah mcm cinta. Cakap I Love You sejuta kali hari2 pown, if tak belai, manja, jaga cinta tu, ia akan mati. Bile cakap belai tu, bukanlah hari-hari pegang cium peluk pasangan (ni yg belum kahwin; kalau dah kahwin tu peluk taknak lepas pown takpe =P) tp lebih kepada belai perasaan tu… jd, samelah CINTA dengan KUCING…
CINTA = GAMES
Cinta itu ibarat permainan. Kite nak menang dalam setiap perlawanan. Mcm tu jugak cinta, kita nak sentiasa memenangi hati dan perasaan pasangan kita. Dan kita akan lakukan yg terbaik hanya utk itu… Maka, CINTA ibarat GAMES…
CINTA = INVESTMENT
Dalam pelaburan, kita akan letakkan wang kita yang kadang2 kita tak pasti menjadi ke pelaburan kita tu. Mcm tu jugak dengan cinta, kita laburkan perasaan kita yg mana ia menjadi taruhan sama ada Berjaya atau tidak. Percayalah, CINTA itu sama dengan INVESTMENT…
CINTA = TOM YAM CAMPUR
Untuk menghidangkan tom yam campur yang sempurna dan enak rasenye, ramuan perlu cukup ditambah dengan bahan2 yang ade dalam tomyam tu. Tomyam campur takkan lengkap kalau setakat ade sotong tp takde ayam. Masam tapi tak pedas. Kene cukup rase barulah terangkat makan. Mcm tu jugak cinta, semua ramuan dan bahan perlu ade untuk mewujudkan perasaan cinta yang hebat. So, CINTA itu merupakan TOMYAM CAMPUR… =P
CINTA = YING YANG
Ying Yang, putih hitam, aura jahat baik. Mcm tu jugak cinta. Keras lembutnye kene bergerak seiring. Kalau pasangan tu sama2 keras hati, kasar, takde yg nak mengalah, tak menjadi…kalau dua2 api, takde yg nak jadi air, hancur la cinta tu… so, CINTA ibarat YING YANG…
CINTA = CUACA
Kejap panas, petang tiba2 hujan. Esok mendung pulak. Tiba2 ribut. Macam tulah cinta. Hari ni kita happy2 go lucky, tibe2 esok kita gaduh, dah mendung. Lepas tu sedih2 nangis, dah banjir. Putaran cinta tu memang mcm cuaca. Jadi betullah CINTA tu same jugak dengan CUACA…
CINTA = PRODUK KECANTIKAN
Ape akan jadi kalau kita pakai produk kecantikan yang tak sesuai dengan kita? Make-up tak sesuai, berjerawatlah muka. Shampoo tak sesuai, gugurlah rambut. Macam tulah cinta. Kalau kita dapat pasangan yang tak sesuai, kitalah yg menderita. Jadi, CINTA sama dengan PRODUK KECANTIKAN…
Ni teori cinta aku…walau apepon bezanye pendapat aku dengan korang, 1 yg penting untuk kita semua, bile kita dah jumpe teman sejati yang melengkapkan perjalanan hidup kita, hargailah dia dan jgn pernah cuba mencari yg lain. Sebab, boleh ke kita dapat insan terbaik seperti dia…??? Dah bace, tanye jiwe…
Salam to all, and I wanna wish u to have a very great Ramadhan on this year. It’s quite a long time I haven’t post anything since I start my practicum session. Pity to my page, finally I come back to say HELLO…hehe…today is the first day of Ramadhan, with a lot of task at the office, I really dehydrate! Thank God, I’m still surviving. Amin…
The best thing about Ramadhan is that, everybody will put a more focus on their ibadah, which is not being our focus before this. I admit that I’m also a part of them. The other best thing is, evil power is kinda less…they are in the prison now, so the bad environment is down to the bottom. Perhaps… because nowadays, I do afraid of human being rather than the evil. As you can see around you…
What else? Dieting… this is the best moment! I hope I can put my weight down at least 5 kg’s. Is that sounding so desperate? Haha I really hope that during Hari Raya, I get back my figure…hehe…
The thing that I really wanna share here is about our Bazaar Ramadhan. Heaven of F&B! I’m not so sure how havoc it is at the other countries, but in Malaysia, it just HEA-VEN! I love to walk until the end of the road, to find the best food for my stomach…hehe…I feel so impressed with all of them because it is not easy to keep on surviving in this area of business. A lot of competitors, but they still there to provide everything that we want to earn some money. I’m not ashamed to admit that my parent is one of them. During Ramadhan, my parents won’t open the canteen, so they will be at bazaar. Business minded person like my mum has a lot of ideas to generate income. For this year, she sells a variety of curry puff and popiah. It’s totally tiring, but enjoyable! There are no contracts that tight us to tell what we suppose to do and what is not. I like it because this is what I call as FREEDOM! I was thinking to get a place at pasar malam right after Hari Raya, and hire 2 people may be to run that business while I’m at office. My auntie’s husband is selling fried chicken and burger at pasar malam as well, and sometimes I help him. As I said before, it is tiring but enjoyable!
Tomorrow I’m going to buy ayam golek for berbuka…really tasty! For today, I just have chicken soup because my first day of Fasting is so horrible! Haha I arrive at ma home around 5.40pm, then because of so tired, I fell asleep until 7pm! OMG! So what else, the easier dish is chicken soup. And now I feel like my tummy is going to explode! Tomorrow I can’t eat too much, otherwise my target to lose 5 kg’s can’t be achieved. Hooowaaaa!!!
But before I stop, I really hope that as a Malaysian, we should feel glad because no matter how bad our politic argument between BN and Pakatan, we still alive and living in a very harmony environment. I hope every one of us will pray for our friends at Palestine, and may ALLAH protect them from idiot stupid moron Zionist! I hate them so much, but in deep, I feel bad because actually I still buy their product. How hypocrite I am when every time I sitting at McD, Starbucks, Hard Rock hotel and etc… I try to avoid all of it from now on. For Palestinians, have a great Ramadhan. May ALLAH protect all of you.
So I guess, I’ going to say Halo back to this page soon!!!
Ladies, are there certain things you believe about men and relationships that can actually be HURTING your chances at real and lasting love?
Now, you tell me if you agree with any of these statements about men:
STATEMENT 1:
Men like a challenge. They like the chase. If you are too easy or approachable, they will get bored, or lose interest!
STATEMENT 2:
Men are dominant in relationship and women therefore are unable to express themselves.
STATEMENT 3:
Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous.
STATEMENT 4:
Men would secretly love to date and sleep with different women the rest of their life rather than just have to stay with one serious committed relationship.
STATEMENT 5:
Men just want to have fun and freedom without responsibility.
So, do you find yourself nodding at any of these? Do you feel like having a fulfilling and connected relationship would be easy if it weren’t for the ‘hang-ups’ men have about commitment or talking about how they feel?
If so, then it’s likely you’re NOT experiencing the kind of easy, effortless love that you want and deserve with a man, simply because you don’t UNDERSTAND what it takes for him to:
a.Feel ‘in love’ with you.
b.Want to make you happy.
c.Want to devote himself to you and only you.
Here, the 3 TRUTHS ABOUT MEN and HOW THEY REALLY THINK and FEEL INSIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS.
TRUTH 1:
Men Don’t Need to Chase
It’s been said many times by many people that men need to be made to chase a woman in order to want her and commit wholeheartedly.
NOT TRUE!
In fact, this is plain wrong. Rather than wanting to ‘chase’ a woman, men are humans first. Which means: They want and need to feel deep, emotional level of attraction for a woman if they are going to be moved to want bigger and better things with you in their life. That everyday ‘Physical Attraction’ a man can feel for any cute women who walks by is not enough, and will never be enough to make him want something more than a casual fling.
Long story short;
Men can and will want to get close to you even if they just feel this Physical Attraction for you and you will likely have a hard time figuring out if they are or aren’t feeling that deeper and more intense and lasting Emotional Attraction.
Not to mention, a men will get easily bored with you and be lazy about a relationship or any kind of commitment if he’s not feeling this Emotional Attraction for you.
What is EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION…?
Emotional attraction goes way beyond what a women looks like, what she says or how successful she is.
If a men senses that a women knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to go after it, and that she has certain ‘standards’ of what she will or won’t put up with from a man, then he will feel incredibly drawn to her.
It has nothing to do with playing GAMES or pretending to be HARD TO GET.
If you think that men just want to chase a women and that acting or being unavailable is a turn-on for him, then you are not going to get far with a men.
What works for keeping a men interested in you date after date, week after week, is something magical that can only happen if he’s feeling emotional attraction for you.
TRUTH 2:
Men Feel Emotions Just Like Women.
Believe me, men are pretty sensitive!
It is just how they handle what they feel that makes them hard to connect with about it, and hard to understand.
Unless you know what is going on with how men handle these things in the first place. Men have a hard time dealing with strong emotions from women.
So you know…
In a recent groundbreaking study of how couples interact when in conflict, it was discovered that men often LOOK DETACHED or WITHDRAWN because they feel intensely STRESSED by the argument.
It is not that they are more ‘in control’.
On the contrary, they feel LESS in control.
So they withdraw in order to try and cope.
Fascinating.
One of the things men often say to women when there’s a conflict or tension in the relationship is, “why are you being so dramatic?”
Annoying, right?
That is his way of saying, “This is getting to intense and I don’t know how to handle it.”
You have the power to bring him closer, even when you have something you need to express that isn’t light or cheerful.
There are certain ways to bring up difficult subjects to a man that ENGAGE him and make him want to do everything in his power to make you feel loved, safe, and comfortable.
Does it seem like an impossible feat?
It is not.
TRUTH 3:
Men Want Relationships.
Men want to be in a relationship, and they have a strong desire to feel recognized as a great partner by their women.
Have you ever accused a man of being ‘not ready’ for a relationship?
Here is a mind-blowing statistic: WOMEN break off relationships or file for a divorce 70% of the time.
That means, women are the ones initiating the end of a relationship much more often than men.
If that surprises you, you may also be surprised to know that a men enjoys being in committed, loving relationships as much as women does.
AS LONG AS IT DOESN’T FEEL HARD TO HIM.
If you give a man the impression that he can’t please you no matter WHAT he does, or that everything he does is pointless because he can’t do ANYTHING right, then guess what?
He’s going to wonder if he is the right partner for you, and he’s going to begin to doubt whether or not he should even continue the relationship.
Maybe you are saying, “But I don’t do that!”
It’s true. You may not even be aware that you are doing this.
But there are certain words and phrases that communicate this to a man whether you are aware of it or not.
Instead, when you show a man that you trust him to be a good partner to you; you will actually inspire him and trigger his devotion and attraction for you.
Would you like to know what to DO and SAY to men to inspire him to be a better partner to you, WITHOUT accidentally communicating to him that your relationship isn’t working for him? We’ll see it later!
Yg buruk itu aku…
Yg bagus itu dia…
Yg hodoh itu aku…
Yg cantik itu dia…
Yang jahat itu aku…
Yang baik itu dia…
Jd, jgn kawan dengan aku kalau kau rase
aku ni cacat, tapi dia sempurna…
It’s pretty much to leave me alone!
