Back to u guys. Question to ponder, does life a fairy tale?? I don’t know what kind of question is this but something that I really understand is that, people love to make dreams about the entire scene on movie or chapter in the novels. Am I right? When we see prince charming hold his beautiful princess, we will imagine that the person on the scene is us. This rarely happens to guys but almost happen to all girls. I have to admit that sometimes I love to put myself on the situation and try to solve a conflict with my own way. Then we start to mumbling ‘stupid, don’t do this. U should do that’. Am I right?
Girls story or maybe we can say, comedy romantic like Wild Child, Confession of Teenage Drama Queen, The Proposal, 17 Again and others are the movies that all girls out there waiting for. With handsome guy as its hero, of course they will start smiling and imagine the girl is them. But, can we really make the story become reality in our life?
Maybe Yes maybe No. Some of the scene is nearly to us, maybe it happens to us accidentally or unconsciously. But the theory handsome guy will fall in love with cute girl, heroin make hero thrill to her, then come the third party whose admire the hero or heroine, then conflict, then back together, live happily ever after, not all these scene will happen to our real life. That is why our life actually is not a fairy tale.
When you fall and you hope that angel will come to your side and brings the miracle that you need, it won’t happen. When you walk and you imagine that all guys attracted to you, then one perfect guy will notice you and offer you a date in front of others, do you think it will really happen? Throw it away.
Maybe yes you are beautiful but are you really sure that all guys whose staring at you is really feel that you are so gorgeous or they just take a look for a moment and then make their own judgement? Well, it happens in my campus life.
There is one girl that I can’t say that she’s beautiful or not but I can claim that so so. Means, when she put her make-up away, she’s not beautiful at all. Wearing a make-up, try to walk like a model which we can notice that the way she walk is not natural at all, looking to other girls like they all just not as perfect as her, wearing heel even she just go to cafe, well I think this is too much. Envy?? Not at all. Not my business to analyze her. But I guess she needs a lesson to be a bit humble. But never mind, do I care about her? Just a little piece of example that actually there are some people that try to bring the love or diva scene in their real life. Acting like they are perfect but in deep they are just plastic. Talking about other appearance is sucks, think that all guys are attracted to her, OMG they just double-jerk!
Well, I’m stand with my Principe. Just be yourself without pretending to be what one is not. And here I am, with my own way, thought, life, image.. Do I look like I care about what they say? Probably No, because I am what I am. Some of us will think that it’s better to duplicate other personality just to fit ourselves and belong to the group. But the thing that you should aware is that, when you try to copycat others, you will not be as same or as good as her, but you will only be a clown. A very dumb clown! Just think that you will good in your own way, your life is not a fairy tale like one of Barbie Story, Popular people with Geek People can’t be together. No, our life is reality, not even close like Barbie or Snow White or Cinderella. So that, doesn’t be so obsessed to have a fairy tale life, because the miracle will only come from HIM, not what other perception on you. Be like Betty, she don’t care about other perception, she just the way she is. And you will find, life is just wonderful without fairy tale dreams....
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